How to Treat A Girlfriend

If you want a woman who is genuinely special, you should be treating her that way.

Some points to kept in mind while treating your special women.

1)    Make her feel beautiful:



Just telling a woman she is beautiful, any guy can do that, this one seems obvious and meaningless. Make her deeply feel, in her heart, that you think she is the most heart-wrenchingly beautiful woman you have ever laid your eyes on.

Women are not often as confident as they come across. You need to reinforce her, no matter what, it does not matter if she just got stung by a bee and her entire face is swollen like a basketball, she is still beautiful and you should also act like it.

It is not just in what you say- it is in what you don’t say. It is in how you look at her, how you talk to her and how you touch her. make her feel what  you don’t need to say, instead of just hearing what you do say.

2)    Be honest

This is another big one, it may not seem like it, because honesty should be a quality that you express towards everyone in your daily life- but being honest with a woman you care about will show her that you respect her enough to be straight up with her.

Choose your words carefully, don’t express your honesty, that would heart her felling, but make sure she get a straight answer when she comes to you. No matter what it’s about.

3)    Kiss her, and not just on the lips

Kiss on her hand

Now’s the time to get your mind out of the gutter- when was the last time you gave your girl a kiss on the forehead of on the nose, on her hand?

Sometimes these actions speak even louder volumes than a kiss on the lips. They show her you what to be close to her and you care about her. Plus, they are more appropriate in public, so you can show her affection.

  

4)    Don’t compare her to other women:

There is really no reason to do this in the first place- but a woman should not be made to feel what she is the best out of all the other girls. Because it implies that there are or have been other girls.

We are all adults, we realize everyone has a past, but there is no point in bringing it up. Instead of making your girl feel like the best girl- make her feel like the only, girl on the planet, because she is.

  

5)    Don’t miss the little things

Chivalry(honourable or polite) is a common theme and that is because it is a big one  often times the small things you do for a woman are the ones that count the most , because it shows you are willing to put in  effort for her just because you want to and not due to a special occasion or event.

Don’t let the little things fade the opening of the doors and pulling out of chairs, holding her hand no matter how long you have been together, hugging her from behind for no reason- all  speak louder than words you can say.

6)    Listen

In a healthy relationship, each partner relies on the other for love, guidance and advice.

Just listen to her

Sometimes, just taking the time to genuinely listen to what she has to say and not saying anything at all – will say more to her than your words ever could.

If a woman is complaining to you, remember that it means she trusts you enough to express for feelings to you. Don’t betray that trust.

  

7)    Start and end your day with her:

Even if you can’t see each other every day, by sending her a simple text when wake up and before you go to bed. She will know she is the first and last person you think of every day, that is priceless.

8)    Give her massages:

When girls talk about getting a massage form their boyfriend/ husband it is like it’s some special occasion saved for birthdays and holidays.

9)    Respect her wishes:

You may not always agree with everything your girlfriend says or does. But, mutual respect is the backbone of any healthy relationship.

Speaking of backbone- respecting her wishes doesn’t mean sacrificing yours, but it does mean being willing to bend it a little bit for her.

You don’t always need to get your way. Plus you might learn something from her.

10)    Remember the little details

Whether is the date you met, the song that always makes her cry, that craving for French fries she gets once every 6 months, or that perfume she loves- paying attention to small details and doing something about it to surprise her, will show your woman that when she talks, you hear her.

It shows her that no matter how busy your life is, despite the pressure you get at work, or the millions of other things you need to worry about- she holds a special place in your heart and your maid.